Quickies are only for young people who are freshly in love. During this grace period you cannot get enough of each other.

Is this also your opinion?

Let me tell you why a quickie can be beneficial even for very established couples if you accept some basic rules.

Understanding what it is and what it isn’t:

- A quickie is really quite basic sex. You may not have the most earth shattering orgasm or even none at all.

- The act and the situation are that excite and not the finality of an orgasm.

- It is not the expression of a premature ejaculation just because it is short.

- A quickie is the salt which makes the main dish tasty.

- It can be done anywhere and anytime (with consent and discretion of course).

Therefore, if a quickie is basic sex and does not even procure you the best of all orgasms, why should you consider adding it to your sex menu?

Here are the six arguments of what the benefits are for couples considering quickies.

It is Fun

It is an expression of desire and playfulness. It adds spice to a routine. Furtive gestures, discreet kisses exchanged during a stroll or over dinner can be the starter for an impromptu quickie.

It can reignite the flame

To feel desired and to desire to a point that it cannot wait, is an excellent means to rekindle a flame that has diminish in the stress of everyday life. It restores desire, vigor and passion. It is a stolen moment of intimacy even when there is no time for long sensual love making.

It is perfect to disrupt routine

Especially if it's done in a more or less unusual place. Sometimes the unusual place for a couple may be just the living room or the kitchen or the car. Take that love out of your bedroom to disrupt the routine.

It fosters closeness and complicity

Quickies, especially the unexpected ones create shared souvenirs of fun time together. The souvenirs it creates, strengthens the bond in a couple. A promising smile or gesture, knowing eyes and secret smiles when in public, reinforce the intimacy of people.

It improves communication

Discussion about the wish to do a quickie is already a first step to improved communication in many couples. I mentioned limited foreplay in a quickie, but actually this concerns essentially the physical foreplay as we know it in a more traditional love making. It can be an excellent opportunity to do some erotic talks and sextos, expressing the desire of the other person, their attractiveness, the things one imagines doing when meeting. All of this can of course be done as well in person over a dinner in a restaurant. It makes your partner feel loved and desired.

It can make you a better lover

It's a very good way to relieve stress, and also it can help some people (often men) to be better lovers once in the bedroom because they are less in a hurry and therefore more attentive to the pleasure of their partner.

Throw your hesitations and prejudice of a quickie to the wind. Forget about having perfect sex each time and add some nuggets of unplanned excitements: dare to have a quickie whenever the desire for each other overtakes you.

These are stolen moments that cement your relationship and creates imperishable souvenirs. Your couple will thank you 😊